Out With the “In”

I have always prided myself on being a very self-confident and secure person.  I was taught in many different ways that insecurity and low self esteem were at the pinnacle of evil, especially for women.  “Confidence is king.”  “Fake it ’til you make it.”  “Look up, not down.”  “Don’t cross your arms too much.  You’ll … Continue reading Out With the “In”

A Thrill of Hope

Greg and I are having a harder time this year getting in to the Christmas spirit. The past couple of years, actually, have been a little harder than normal. I think the correct word for how we feel this year would be “distracted”. We’re distracted by work and deadlines, keeping our budget on track during … Continue reading A Thrill of Hope

The Parking Lot

I am saying goodbye to a good friend tonight.  Her moving has been on the horizon for a few years now.  But tonight it goes from a “Yeah, probably one day” to a packed moving truck and a final meal together.  This past year I have been seeing a counselor twice a month, just to … Continue reading The Parking Lot

For the Long Haul

When was the last time that you set a personal goal for yourself with the knowledge that you most likely wouldn’t cross the finish line until a good year later?  I LOVE setting goals and more than setting them, I love meeting them…quickly and efficiently and within a timeline that allows other people to sit … Continue reading For the Long Haul